Create a list of important phone numbers (e.g. police, shelter)
for yourself and your children, and always have change for a
phone call 24-hours/7 days a week
Crisis
Lines (905) 878-8555 and (905) 332-7892
Create a list of safe places you can go (e.g. family, friend,
shelter)
Tell your neighbours (if it's safe) you would like them to call
police if they hear fighting or screaming/possibly children
will go there.
Hide clothing, house keys, car keys, money, important documents
(or copies), favourite toys, etc. at a friend or family member's
home
Keep all of your identification in your wallet (or other safe
place)
Open your own bank account (at a bank different from your partner)
and arrange that calls and bank statements go to a friend or
family member
Save and set aside as much money as you can (e.g. from grocery
budget)
Have $10 to $15 available for cab fare or an emergency
Be aware of any weapons in the home (including kitchen knives)
Tell people you trust about the abuse
Teach your children their own safety plan (i.e. safe place to
go, how to use the phone to call for help, emergency exits,
etc)
Create a code word with your children and family so they know
when to call for help
Consider a plan for the safety and welfare of your pet(s)
If
you are not living with your abusive partner:
Change the locks, install a peephole in the door, a security
system, an outside lighting system, and smoke detectors
Teach your children not to answer the door
Have your telephone number unpublished and block your number
when calling out (dial *67 before the number)
Consider getting a cellular phone and have a cordless in the
house
Keep your restraining order near you at all times
Make sure the school, day care, and police have a copy of all
court documents, including restraining orders and custody/access
orders
Tell people that your partner no longer lives with you and ask
them to call police if your partner is seen near your home or
children
Tell the people who take care of your children who has permission
to pick them up
Tell someone at work about your situation and ask for calls
to be screened
Stay away from the places your partner is likely to go or hang
out (e.g. stores, banks, video rental, bars)
Safety plan in 12 different languages Please visit the Peel Committee Against Woman Abuse website: www.pcawa.org/rp1.htm for more information on safety planning and to
access a
safety plan in 12 different languages.
Important
Documents and Items to Take With You When You Leave
Identification
Birth
certificates for you and your children
Health
certificates for you and your children
Social
insurance card
School
and medical records
Money,
bank books, credit cards
Keys
- house, car, office, safety deposit box, mail box
Driver's
licence and registration
Medications/prescriptions
for you and your children
Passport,
immigration papers, citizenship papers
Mortgage
information, house deed, lease/rental agreement
Insurance
papers
Address
book
Pictures,
jewelry, personal items of sentimental value
Children's
favourite toys, blankets
Any
legal documents (i.e. separation agreement, divorce papers, restraining
order)
The most
important thing is to make sure you and your children are safe. If you need
to flee your home and you are able, always take the children with you. This
is very important for future custody disputes. It is not considered kidnapping
as both parents have equal rights to their children, unless there is a court
order.
If you
are not able to take anything with you when you leave, you can return
to your home with a police escort to gather personal belongings.
Important Phone Numbers
Halton Regional Police Service (Victim Services Unit)
(905) 878-5511
Emergencies only
911
Crisis Lines:
• Halton Women's Place North
• Halton Women's Place South
(905) 878-8555
(905) 332-7892
Victim/Witness Assistance Program - Halton
(905) 878-6292
Sexual Assault & Violence Intervention Services of Halton (SAVIS)